Free your thoughts

Yesterday I was talking with my bfffff, and it was about being honest. It is the hardest thing in some situations but also the easiest. We all have million silent questions in a day, some silly onces like “Why is she wearing that jacket with those shoes?!” or harder onces like “why isn’t he answering?”, “why people say those things about me?” and you can keep thinking, making up answers for yourself, “ahh probably because…” You waste your time, as long as you keep guessing and keep the questions for yourself, you would never know the answer.

What about just ask the person what’s going on? YESSSS, that is the better option! I’ve noticed that so many people are afraid to walk to the person and ask the questions that are stuck in their head. Why is that so scary?

I like to experiment with my deep thoughts about life, also with this subject; I started with “investigate” how many times people keep questions to theirselves or act like they don’t care about several things. Than I try out how people react when I asked the questions that pop op in my head, without making up a weird story to get the answer. Just simple “what is the reason that you lie?”, “why do you behave like that?” or “Why do you make a fight instead of asking her?” <- CLASSIC!

That was funny, because the reactions were very different, you can see how people really are. Most of them started laughing, they liked that I asked straight to the point and answered the question honest… it solved more issues than I expected. But other people were shocked or lie… “Like omg why you asked?” Or “no, I’ve never said that”

Who looked like a fool here? Me because I was honesty asking what I wanted to know, or them because they got caught?

It is such a relief to say what is on your mind, no matter how hard it is at the moment. If you don’t want to do something, say it instead of doing things that you don’t want to and screw it up. Ask that person what is going on instead of being bitchie and making fights for nothing. Ask your boyfriend about the girl instead of thinking that he is cheating. Most of the time things looks worser then they really are do not get fooled by that. Get real to others and especially to yourself.

You are a magical creature, with a lot of power… Use the power that you have for more amazing things.

 

Loving life,

SHOCKING:

Now I understand “the grown-ups” mostly the mothers who complain about their weight and be to busy for taking care of their body. Doesn’t make time for workouts and only eat the quick meals.

A while ago I didn’t understand that, how can you not have time? “MAKE TIME, you want to lose weight? Go to the gym, even if it is for a half an hour, isn’t so hard is it? Lying on the couch or have a workout that makes you feel better when your done.” But now when I experience the “adult life” I completely understand!!

I am so tired after a whole day at work, I try to go to the gym and workout but it is not like I did before. After 3 months now, I gain 5 kg!! OH MY GODNESS!! I know ey, it is shocking! But what did I expect? Trained not so much as I did before (even skipped sometimes) and all day I sit on a computer and eat. Not candy, cookies and chocolate but without my daily movement and without training you obviously see much difference. So to now I had to search for another way… something had to change.

I tried different things;
– Instead of going home with the car, I went back on my skates (15 km). I do this once a week. It is hard, specially if your not used to skate. So I recommend to train a bit before you skate 15 km in a day.
– At work I only eat fruit and vegetables (no other “healthy”cookies or snacks just the fruit and vegetables), I try to make good meals with it so I am not getting hungry and small pieces for a snack.
– I found out that I eat more when I sit all day, think everybody does that. Anyway, I try to change the food for water and tea. Luckily I love tea, so it isn’t hard for me to drink it, and everytime when i get a ‘hungry in cookie’ feeling I drink a glass or water or tea.
– It sound silly but when I am alone in the office or when I go to the toilet I do a few squats. I don’t know if this will help a lot but it give me more motivation because I have the feeling that I do a good job! HAHA! I do 10 till 20 squats because I don’t want to sweat and that like 5 times a day?
– No extra salt, I use to put salt on everything, I knew it wasn’t good but I couldn’t eat it without. But I was so shocked from the 5kg that i thought: Ok I drink a lot now and I can eat salty food cause I only enjoy it the 5 minutes that I eat it. So those 5 minutes non-salty eating isn’t the worst thing. I just need to learn to eat without salt.

I already lost 2kg while I was changing these little things at my ”working new lifestyle”. So for me it works, if you have more tips you can always sent me a email or message on tumblr! I would love to hear!

Love,

It’s a miracle!

Hemp Oil.

Yessss, you probably think, “Ooooofcourse a girl from Holland, Amsterdam, drugs, illegal stuff” haha! But no, this stuff is 100% legal and a miracle for your body. My grandpa always felt cold, he couldn’t get warm and it was so annoying for him. So he heard about the Hemp Oil and how good it is for million things in your body. And it is always worth to try right? So the whole family start to join him with the Hemp Oil, and it did make a difference. First of all my grandpa isn’t cold anymore… he feels normal like he used to feel.

And I noticed that my skin was a bit oily the first week, I really needed to wash it twice during the day (thank god for the blotting paper) but now it is clear and matte. A bit the same reaction as the tiny-tea teatox did to my skin. But the strangest thing was that I haven’t felt sick after a party… Normal when I drink a few wines I am so sick the next day, bad hangover not like normal but really really bad. And I found out that when I woke-up after a few “accident drinks” I felt normal!! Not sick, not a headache, not tired, just normal like nothing happened! PERFECT! So I tried it again and again and again hahah! And It is gone? How crazy is that?! *I am not saying that this works for everybody, because I don’t know I just found it out.

Also, once a month I am dying from the pain in my belly. When I feel it coming, I need to go home asap before it is to late otherwise I crawl on the floor from the pain and need to throw up. But since I use the Oil it is gone. I am so so so so happy for that! It is a panacea. AMAZING! I am sure it did more to my body but I haven’t notice it yet. I am using it for two weeks now and I am happy with the results. If you going to try it, or already use(d) it let me know how you have experienced, I am very curious.

What are the beneficial properties of Hemp Seed Oil?

Because Hemp Seed Oil is such a rich source of both LA (Omega 6) and LNA (Omega 3) in balanced proportions, conditions caused by deficiencies in both can be treated with one oil.

The functions of LNA include: Production of smooth skin increased stamina, speeds healing, increases vitality, brings a feeling of calmness, reduces inflammation, water retention, platelet stickiness and blood pressure, enhances immune functions, reduces the pain and swelling of arthritis, can reverse pre-menstrual syndrome, can treat bacterial infections, brain development in children.

-Here are a few links that I found about the Hemp Oil. If you are going to try it too I recommend to search on the internet or ask a doctor first before you take it, just in case because everybody is different, and when you try out new things you never know how your body is going to react. 

http://www.regenerativenutrition.com/content.asp?id=64
http://nimbinwave.com/facts/guide-to-hemp-seed-oil
http://hempbasics.com/shop/hemp-seed-nutrition

Good luck gorgeous souls!

Love,

Limitless

Hi lovely’s,

It is been a while now since the last time that I post something, I am sorry for that but I am terrably busy. Yesterday I came home around 1:30 in the night and my alarm went off at 6 in the morning for a full day at work. Although I love being busy like this, I still wish that the day had more hours. All the fun and excited things are coming my way now. This year started rough for me, but now I can tell, and see that it was all for the best. I feel much more alive now, FREE, I grow, learn, explore and follow my own path. I found out that there is no limit, until you give yourself a limit. I am very thankful for everything that happened, even if I wasn’t that happy about it at the time. I truly believe that it goes better and better! Thank you Universe!

Andddd a little newsflash! I signed up for the Ladies run in Rotterdam, 10km! I decided to join it this year because I like to run for a reason, especially for Pink Ribbon. And to be honest I needed some extra motivation. Since Christmas my workout routine is bad… I need to make time for things that I want to do.. In the morning I always make plans like: “Today I am going to run, kickboxing and relax in the evening” And guess how that works out lately?! No kickboxing, 2 km walk and late in the evening I take some time to relax, can’t sleep because I worry that I have to wake up in 4 hours! Sounds familiar?!

I need to find a way that I can do the things I really want to do. So I am going to make a good plan for myself and promise that I do everything that I really really want to do in a day, so that I can be proud at myself when I lay in bed. Like training for the ladies run, writing on romyashley.com, making my favorite bracelets, watch the latest episodes from The Blacklist, Revenge and Pretty Little Liars and make more time to rest and relax.

I hope you all have a amazing day, and remember… No Limits!

 

Love,