Free your thoughts

eYesterday I was talking with my bfffff, and it was about being honest. It is the hardest thing in some situations but also the easiest. We all have million silent questions in a day, some silly onces like “Why is she wearing that jacket with those shoes?!” or harder onces like “why isn’t he answering?”, “why people say those things about me?” and you can keep thinking, making up answers for yourself, “ahh probably because…” You waste your time, as long as you keep guessing and keep the questions for yourself, you would never know the answer.

What about just ask the person what’s going on? YESSSS, that is the better option! I’ve noticed that so many people are afraid to walk to the person and ask the questions that are stuck in their head. Why is that so scary?

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tumblr_n3z4e6SMBO1qjb0reo1_500I like to experiment with my deep thoughts about life, also with this subject; I started with “investigate” how many times people keep questions to theirselves or act like they don’t care about several things. Than I try out how people react when I asked the questions that pop op in my head, without making up a weird story to get the answer. Just simple “what is the reason that you lie?”, “why do you behave like that?” or “Why do you make a fight instead of asking her?” <- CLASSIC!

That was funny, because the reactions were very different, you can see how people really are. Most of them started laughing, they liked that I asked straight to the point and answered the question honest… it solved more issues than I expected. But other people were shocked or lie… “Like omg why you asked?” Or “no, I’ve never said that”

Who looked like a fool here? Me because I was honesty asking what I wanted to know, or them because they got caught?

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It is such a relief to say what is on your mind, no matter how hard it is at the moment. If you don’t want to do something, say it instead of doing things that you don’t want to and screw it up. Ask that person what is going on instead of being bitchie and making fights for nothing. Ask your boyfriend about the girl instead of thinking that he is cheating. Most of the time things looks worser then they really are do not get fooled by that. Get real to others and especially to yourself.

You are a magical creature, with a lot of power… Use the power that you have for more amazing things.

 

Loving life,

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Unexpected holiday

Yes, very unexpected…

dbgdfThe story: Last week my best mate called me that we could go on a snowvacation, for only €10 ! That’s crazy! But I couldn’t go because I had to work that week… So I felt terrible I love the snowvacations and I really needed it this year. So on monday I went to work, with a very disapointed bad mood and I told the story to my boss. And his reaction was: “Wow if you called me you could have go yesterday!” I had my free days left, the work was done so he didn’t saw a problem. I really jumped on the floor I was soooo happy, so I called my friend back and we packed all our stuff so we could leave asap. The only thing we needed to do was, letting the people (were we would stay) know that we were coming that night. And yes, you can guess what happened… We couldn’t go… Something with the fire safety and the appartement boss blabla… But we did understand but it was so sad, we packed everything in 1 hour and took free days at work etc. So we decided to go anyway… Even if we had to sleep in the car for a week hahaha! Well to make the story a bit shorter, a good friend helped us out, we stayed in the best hotel and we still left that Monday!!

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It was so much fun, we had a great time there and I can not wait to go back next year. The unexpected things in life are almost always the most valuable memories. I will never forget this week with these mambeaus.

 

-Here you see a part of the most un-embarrassing photodiary from last week;

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Each time you love, love as deeply as if it were forever

Valentinesday; Love, love, love…

For some people the best day of the year and other people hate it. Yesterday I was one of the people who said; “I hate it” but this morning when I was on the road and saw a amazing Sunrise, I realised that it isn’t all about being in love with someone. Valentinesday is about everything you like and everyone that you love, and showing how much you care.

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Every year my best-friend and my grandparents sent me a beautiful valentine card and they never miss a year! Isn’t that the most beautiful gift you can give somebody?! They spend their time and energy to sent you a card for letting you know that they love you. It makes me so happy to open the cards, like little presents. And that is what real love is, valentine is not only boyfriend-girlfriend relationships but everything that makes you smile and every relationship you can imagine! If you like to ride a bike go ride that bike and feel the happiness. If you like flowers, buy them for yourself and enjoy the color, smell everything you like about it.

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Make yourself happy today and don’t wait for others to make you happy, and… don’t expect to much from a guy! Show people who you love that you love them more then anything, and enjoy the things that are special to you.

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So even if your heartbroken, feel bad today or just hate valentinesday remember that it is all about loving and showing the love in any special way. And you are special so forget about the bad things and start loving!

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Summer Vibessss

Voel jij ook al dat de zomer er weer langzaam aankomt en kun je niet wachten tot je weer lekker op een terrasje kunt zitten met je vrienden of lekker een lange dag op het strand rond kunt bazuinen? Nou ikke wel! Ik heb al zeker de zomer in mijn bol. De warme bries door je haren, de warmte van de zon op je huid, zonder dikke jas naar buiten, teen-slippertjes aan, en mijn favoriete voordeel van de zomer is het heerlijke zomerfruit! hmm…

Maar gelukkig liet vandaag het zonnetje zijn gezicht weer zien, ik twijfelde geen moment om naar buiten te gaan. Mijn sportoutfit aan, skates mee en op naar het bos om eens even lekker uit te razen en tegelijk vitamine-D op te doen. Alleen ik vergis me er altijd heel erg in dat ondanks dat het weer er lekker uit ziet, het toch verraderlijk koud kunt zijn. Dus een (bekende) tip voor de Nederlanders onder ons; neem ALTIJD iets extra’s mee, je kunt beter wat kleding uit doen dan te weinig bij je hebben.

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I can not wait until the summer is here… I know that a lot of you who live in Australia, Hawaii, Miami etc. still have summer this moment and goshhh I am so jealous! I post before (few months ago) that I also love the winter, and I still do! Until Christmas and New Year haha! Then it get’s boring, if we have snow it disappear this time of the year and only the grey rainy weather if left. People also getting annoyed and unfriendly because they are stuck inside their houses and haven’t seen “real” sunlight for months. These summer photo’s made me sooo excited for summer! I make myself crazy, I am already searching for nice trips to the sun -> California!

Anyway, to make you also crazy and excited for summer, here are a little pre-summer vibes! X
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