The inspiring; JAY ALVARREZ

JAY

I like Life raw.. No stress no chemicals, no drugs, ratty hair and less clothing. I like to be sober & rowdy and do the things I love to keep me up, I like to be alone and I love everything thats natural.. Say what you feel and forget how others judge you.. The things that keep me happy are simple yet amazing, I love where I am from and what I am… Only secret iv’e learn to be happy in life is to be Content and not insecure for what you are express what you do and feel & build up no pain… No clouds in my life… ✖️

 

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Jay Alvarrez,

 

18 years old but goshhh what a strong mind has this kid. With his photography, sexy looks and his different & amazing lifestyle he conquers the world. He is one of the most inspiring people I know from the internet, so wild & free and very creative how he choose to live his life…

1He is living on one of the most beautiful places on the world: Oahu Hawaii North Shore, isn’t this like paradise?!

12 8Isn’t it amazing how this young guy could find a way, to turn his life around to a real paradise? His world is a fairytale, OUR world is his fairytale. What do you think about that? We can all make our lives in to a magical surprising place, we live in the same world as Jay and he is a real life example for “make your dreams come true”. He followed his dreams, and he did what was really good for himself instead of what “the world” expected from him. He made a difference took chances and that is what I call a hero.13 914

 

Anonymous asked: When did you make the biggest change in your life ?
This made me think a lot for some reason probably because you caught me in-between emotions.. Growing up I always was kinda outta the group and loop of a lot of the other kids just more different not cool enough or whatever it was I got shit from other kids because my style & what I liked to do, Girls never liked me because I was weird & different & because I wouldn’t do what everyone else would to fit in. It bugged me a lot sometimes as a kid I lowered my standards to a lot of different things in life and kind of accepted that maybe I’m just made differently and not as good as everyone else. skip forward a few years & now I’m 14-15 Around this time my mom got diagnosed with cancer and had a year to live.. it wasn’t for awhile till I realized what was going on.. when you are a kid everything blends together mix’s between dreamy things and little worries because these years you really are learning things in life new emotion come into play so often and you are so venerable to outside sources and honestly looking back everything from when I was 15 years and younger felt like a different life something that almost was so far away from me but every smell of something brought back vivid nostalgic memories. It only happened a few months before my mothers death where I started understand the feel behind peoples words I learned empathy and realized theres more in the world then just in my mind & what I believe and how I see things. I stopped going to school in 7th grade because people judged me because I was stressed out about school I would wake up at 6am get back at 4pm and learn nothing, literally. Everyone judged my for dropping out of school but for the last 5 years I haven’t had an alarm clock set haven’t had any stress of school work and I’ve been able to spend time in nature and travel and meet so so so so many amazing people. left and right people who change your understanding of life forever, things you wont learn in high school. most of all a big change combined with this and my mothers illness was sympathy and understanding and this sound bold but it played a huge part in any success in my life I kept quiet beneath everyone else I learned how everything ticked and tocked and worked together and how things reacted with each other it really was a science part of my life of learning things. I started to express emotion with other people like me.. I started to blend with others. I learned that no matter who you are you are flawed ether noticeably or within.. this made me so much more comfortable with who and what I was. Photos have always been a favorite of me because I have always lived such a creative life anything and everything iv’e touched i just naturally want to make mine in some way or at least leave a mark, I’m such a rowdy playful soul no matter what it is i’ve hurt people and have blessed people but both have benefited me in learned more about life.. a big step after was coming into conscious with my inner soul I stopped feeding myself anything harmful I started feeding my soul and not my pleasure side of my mind. I started making my self form a taste for healthy food I have always been averagely healthy but I really started eating weird foods that others wouldn’t touch things I know make my body and mind happy. In my view you are made of three things cut separately. You have your subconscious.. you have your body and mind.. and you have your soul. in order to stay in tune with life you must keep all 3 in a working order. all 3 are here to only make things good for you. Your body does not want anything bad to happened within or to you. Its all a chain reaction. you have to nourish your body and mind to be healthy you must be active you have to do things that make you feel pain so you can become stronger mentally and physically. Your sub conscious is your other half it catches everything you don’t it reads your surrounding its important to fill it with things you love and come to understand it and treat it well because it all comes back to you. It also has a huge play on the way you feel when you don’t pay attention and even more in your dreams when you sleep. The last is your soul is who and what you are its the emotions you feel and the things you love feed your soul by love and other people feed it with the things you love and that make time move by faster. once you get all three of these in working order you will be all around more happy and content. I’ve entered an entire new world literally because being able to control and learn my sub conscious iv’e got really into lucid dreaming.. & I look forward going to sleep every night because I get lost in this crazy world in my mind and its just magic and bliss its better then any drug on psychedelic you could do, I’ve spent time with my mother in my dreams I’ve seen and done things you can’t do in real life. I don’t know how to explain it but lucid dreaming is basically when you are aware you are dreaming and you can take advantage of it, your sub conscious is what makes your dreams landscapes and the things around you and so becoming internally content with it. I started making a name for myself through taking photo’s of my lifestyle & the things around me and it started to inspire people around me i’d get people writing to me about how i’ve made them re evaluate life or sooth there mind and soul. And still to this day I don’t understand how or what but doing something I love & making other people happy while I do it is a no brainer. Seriously Find what you love and do it as much as you can, forever. I’ve learned by exposing my self and not hiding my feelings and thoughts I went from feeling alone to being more loved then ever I have amazing friends all over this planet now. Girls use to never look at me now I can literally seduce and dig into a girls soul and eyes. I’ve gone to places now I thought I never would have in life. I’ve gotten opportunities I never would have before.. People give me more respect for doing something with my life now. Life is a trip and I’m only 18 I got alot ahead of me and I can’t wait for it all to unfold… These are some of the biggest changes in my life sorry If that was long but I’d rather share a little bit of what I learned. I could go on for days, but both of us would be exhausted.

– Jay Alvarrez

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16jay6155As you can see is this beautiful soul not only a photographer but guess what?! Also a successful model by L.A. Models & Next Miami & Premier Hawaii.10 417

3Cant get enough? You can see much much more about Jay’s life on; www.jayalvarrez.tumblr.com

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Love,

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Do we live or exist?

This is question that I constantly see on tumblr: Do you live or just exist? And that made me think, a lot.. Is that really what we are doing here on this planet? Just exist and wasting our time with this we don’t like, waiting until our time is up?! You can see this in many ways, like going to school and work that you don’t like or hanging on the couch. But I don’t think that that’s really what they meant.. I think it is more by chasing your dreams, and never take NO for an answer.

There are things in this world that you want, like traveling, living a expensive life, big cars and all that kind of luxury. But think about it first, why do you want that?! Because it is pretty? Or because other people think that is pretty? Because we all decided that driving a big car is awesome. But is that really what makes you happy? Or is it because you think it makes you happy? If you start thinking very deep by what do you really want?… It is all about being valued, you want people to like you and that people see you and accept you. But that car doesn’t make you happy, being yourself makes you happy. If people like you for who you are isn’t that the best feeling ever? Isn’t that much better than having all these luxury, and that is (most of the time) the only reason why people like you. This is the first step of all, WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT?! What is YOUR dream? And what makes YOU truly happy?

And this is something that I am struggling with for weeks maybe months, I don’t know what I want… But I do know that I want to live, and I am not going waste my time here until I die and regret how I lived. And that is why I also made this blog/website. This is what I want and this is what I like to do. Writing about my thoughts that nobody around me understand. I love it, and I can do it everywhere.

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And when I found this story on http://www.jayalvarrez.com I was shocked. But that is reality, we always regret things when it is too late. That why I want to share this with you guys.
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Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets people make on their deathbed

“I had to share this with anyone bit of a read but let it spark you, It was only 4-5 years ago I truly stopped letting other heavily influence me & let there thoughts & what they say mean nothing to me, And the point where I started expressing my self to people and it truly shined threw to show me who my real friends were and who i blended well with.. Always remember this one.. the ones who matter don’t mind and the ones that mind don’t matter..” – @Jayalvarrez

“For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives. People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality”

I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honored even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honor at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realize, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realize the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again. When you are on your deathbed, what  others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.

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If you really want something, work for it, you can make it happen. “If you can dream it, you can get it” Enjoy every little thing in life, make time for your children, your parents, family, friends and forgive. Everybody and everything that you love and who makes you happy. Because in the end that is all that matter. All the weight-loss, little bitch fights and I am ugly problems are nothing. Stop waisting your time on that, and live your life so you can be happy and proud that you made that happen. Write your own history. & again, enjoy every minute of your life. Don’t worry about others or little problems, it is only you and the ones you love.

I will make more posts about this, if you have questions you can always asked them on tumblr.

Love,

JAY

Experience of a lifetime

Traveling, how can somebody not like that? For me it is my hobby, lifestyle, something I live for. I love to see the world, get inspired by all different cultures and places, food, streets, people & habits, everything! I have been to a lot of different places/counties. But there are some extraordinary places on earth that I really want to go to in my life. What about Alaska, have you ever been there? Or did you ever think about going there? I didn’t until I saw this:

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I think it is different for me because Alaska is far from were I live that I never really thought of that, maybe it is a normal vacation spot for people from America? I don’t know…

But don’t you have the feeling that you want to discover the world and see all those amazing places at least once in you life? Doing good things for the world, and actually start living.

Since I saw these amazing photo’s on tumblr & pinterest my mind ran over from ideas and creativity. I want to explore these places, want to see it, feel it and enjoy it.

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Isn’t that amazing?

I would love to make a whole page of this, the beautiful spots on earth.
Have you ever been to a place like this, or a place that you would love to share with others? Than you can sent a email to romyashley2@gmail.com with the subject: “My experience” and I will share your experience. I would love to hear/see them!

 

Love,